Ah, summertime. The season of sunshine, backyard barbecues, and family vacations. But for separated or divorced parents, summertime can also mean navigating custody schedules and potential conflicts. Don’t let custody challenges put a damper on your summer fun! Here are some tips on how mediation can help you overcome those summertime custody woes.
First off, let’s acknowledge that custody arrangements are tricky any time of year. But summertime can bring some unique challenges, like juggling summer camps and extended vacations. Add in the fact that everyone wants to make the most of the warm weather and long days, and tensions can rise quickly.
One key to surviving summer custody challenges is communication. If you’re co-parenting, it’s essential to keep the lines of communication open and respectful. Consider having a regular check-in, whether it’s a weekly phone call or email exchange, to make sure everyone is on the same page about schedules and plans.
But what if you can’t agree on something? This is where mediation comes in. Mediation is a process where a neutral third party helps facilitate a discussion between the two parties in conflict. Mediation can be particularly helpful for custody issues because it allows parents to work together to find a solution that works for everyone.
Mediation can be like the sunscreen of summer custody challenges. Just like sunscreen protects your skin from harmful UV rays, mediation can protect your co-parenting relationship from getting burned by conflicts that can escalate quickly.
Mediation can also help keep things flexible. Summer schedules can be unpredictable, with last-minute invitations to a friend’s lake house or a family wedding on the other side of the country. Mediation can help you and your co-parent find creative solutions to unexpected changes in the schedule.
California Summer Custody Mediation
As a family mediator in San Diego, I have worked with countless couples over the past 15 years who needed something unique for their summertime schedules. It may feel overwhelming, but we are here to make it as easy as possible. Sometimes, we can even make your time enjoyable in mediation…and dare I say it… fun! Don’t struggle through custody issues this summer, give us a call and we will help you and your co-parent work together and find solutions that work for your family. We may even help you find ways to get along better year-round. We are not your typical mediation firm. Give us a call!
And remember, even if you’re dealing with custody challenges, summer can still be a fun and memorable season for you and your kids. With a little bit of communication and flexibility, you can make the most of the sunshine and create lasting memories together.
by: Jennifer Segura
When you’re looking for expert guidance in co-parenting, our team of experienced professionals are here to help. Visit our Parenting Plans page to learn more about our services and how we can support you through summer custody challenges. Don’t hesitate to reach out to us with any questions or to get started on your parenting plan.