A more compassionate, affordable alternative to litigation
Divorce mediation is a process in which you and your spouse work together with a neutral third party, a mediator, to navigate through your concerns and complete all required legal paperwork involved in a divorce. Throughout your sessions, your mediator will assist in getting your assets evaluated before discussing the division of your assets and debts. They will facilitate each of you in creating separate household budgets. And they will provide various options for time-sharing with the children that can be tested and modified throughout the mediation before agreeing on a long-term parenting plan (the courts refer to this as custody and visitation). Finally, if there is a need for child or spousal support, your mediator will assist in coming to an amount that will work for both parties. Your mediator will guide conversations to prevent conflict, and will ensure that you and your spouse are fully informed every step of the way. Everything you do or say in mediation in California is 100% confidential and can not be shared without both parties’ express written permission.
As part of your divorce mediation process, your mediator will file all of the legal documents that are required by the courts. This includes a comprehensive Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA), which becomes your final divorce judgment (ie., decree). This document is fully enforceable by law, but you will never have to set foot inside a courtroom. Everything needed from start to finish can be done through our office.
A more compassionate, affordable alternative to litigation
Divorce mediation is a process in which you and your spouse work together with a neutral third party, a mediator, to navigate through your concerns and complete all required legal paperwork involved in a divorce. You have control over the divorce process, not the courts.
Your divorce, your terms.
Throughout your sessions, your mediator will assist in getting your assets evaluated before discussing the division of your assets and debts. They will help each of you create separate household budgets. And they will provide various time-sharing options with the children that can be tested and modified throughout the mediation before agreeing on a long-term parenting plan (the courts refer to this as custody and visitation).
Finally, if there is a need for child or spousal support, your mediator will assist in determining an amount that both parties feel comfortable with. Your mediator will guide conversations to prevent conflict and will ensure that you and your spouse are fully informed every step of the way. Everything you do or say in mediation in California is 100% confidential and can not be shared without both parties’ express written permission.
Everything you need, no need to go to court
As part of your divorce mediation process, your mediator will file all of the legal documents that are required by the courts. This includes a comprehensive Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA), which becomes your final divorce judgment (ie., decree). This document is fully enforceable by law, but you will never have to set foot inside a courtroom. Everything needed from start to finish can be done through our office in San Diego.
Benefits of divorce mediation over litigation
Unlike litigation, which is designed to create conflict between spouses, mediation can help reduce the tension and stress surrounding your divorce for everyone involved. A mediator is trained to assist couples in minimizing conflict and developing mutually beneficial solutions. If you have children, mediation can be much more helpful than litigation during this major family transition, as it involves creating a parenting plan with input from both parents, prioritizing the child’s best interests in every decision, and fostering a positive co-parenting relationship moving forward.
Flat-rate packages, no surprises
Many couples choose mediation because it is a much more affordable option for divorce. Mediation costs only a fraction of litigation. If you and your spouse decide to hire attorneys and go through litigation, you'll have to communicate solely through expensive hourly-rate lawyers instead of talking directly to each other. This often causes misunderstandings, frustrations, and very high legal bills. We offer flat-rate mediation packages that cost a fraction of what litigation does.
The goal of litigation is for either of the parties to “win in battle.” In contrast, the goal of divorce mediation is to create a final agreement that encourages cooperation and respect between both parties. If you are seeking a more compassionate, less stressful, affordable path to divorce, mediation is right for you.
What is the mediation process like?
While your mediation may extend anywhere from two to six sessions based on the flat-fee package that best fits your circumstances, you can expect to discuss the following:
- Necessary information regarding you and your current spouse
- Your financial information, such as bank accounts, retirement, savings, investments, business interests, debts, etc.
- Tax filing, deductions, and credits
- Timeshare with your child(ren), including day-to-day and holiday schedules
- Other items related to your child(ren) including their financial, educational and, medical needs
- Spousal support
- Communication methods between you and your spouse
Online Divorce Mediation
We also offer online divorce mediation. All you need is a computer or phone with Internet access and a web camera. Our mediators can navigate you through the entire divorce process without you ever having to leave your home. This is a great option for those who have filed for divorce locally but often travel or are too far from our in-person office locations.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Online Divorce Mediation
What is divorce mediation, and how does it work?
Divorce mediation is a voluntary and confidential process in which a neutral third party helps couples resolve issues related to their separation without going to court. The mediator guides productive conversations, clarifies priorities, and supports both parties in reaching mutually acceptable agreements. Instead of a judge making decisions, you and your spouse remain in control of the outcome.
What issues can be resolved through divorce mediation?
Mediation can address nearly all aspects of divorce, including property division, child custody and parenting plans, child support, spousal support, and other financial matters. Couples can also work through communication challenges and future decision-making arrangements. The goal is to create practical, customised agreements that reflect your family’s specific needs.
How much does divorce mediation cost compared to traditional litigation?
Divorce mediation is typically much more cost-effective than traditional litigation. By avoiding prolonged court proceedings, extensive attorney fees, and drawn-out disputes, couples often save significant time and money. The streamlined process also reduces emotional stress and conflict.
Is divorce mediation legally binding?
Yes. Once both parties reach an agreement in mediation, the terms are put into writing and can be submitted to the court for approval. After approval, the agreement becomes legally binding and enforceable, just like a court-ordered judgment.
If we decide to move to litigation, are mediation discussions still confidential?
Yes. Mediation discussions are 100% confidential and cannot be used as evidence in court without permission from both parties. This confidentiality allows both parties to speak openly and explore solutions without fear that their words will be used against them later.
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